Cortona

November 11, 2016

If you're like me, this was a pretty tough week. Life kind of turned upside down and left some of us reeling. I am still trying to find a place to put it all, not certain there exists such a place. But for today, I want a bit of distraction. I want to get lost and I have the perfect place for doing so. For today, I am revisiting a glorious day spent in one of the most delicious cities in Tuscany.....Cortona.

It's beauty, charm and pace allow one to get lost in the wonder of just how beautiful life can be. Worries seem small in this grand place that welcomes you with a hug, and gives you light kisses along the way as you navigate the winding and escalating streets, each holding a promise of beauty and deep inhale.

I have been to Cortona twice. This second time was extra special as I visited with my dear friend, Lisa Condie, from Find Yourself in Tuscany. Lisa runs small group tours that allow you to experience Tuscany like a local, and Cortona is one of her special spots. How lucky am I to have her share it all with me so generously!

Lisa is friends with the locals and as we made our way through the city we visited, chatted, and she introduced me to her friends. One of our first stops was the G alleria Il Pozzo Artigianato/The Cortona Gift Shop where I had the absolute pleasure of meeting Ivan. His shop is filled with handmade papers, books, ceramics and so much more. I particularly loved his uncle's photographs. The best part of the visit was when Ivan asked if he could take my phone, knelt down on the floor and proceeded to take a video of an old Etruscan 400 B.C. well he unexpectedly discovered while lowering the floor of his shop. Yes, this is how life rolls in Italy. Ancient finds on any given day. It was an extremely beautiful and generous gesture and I say Grazie Mille Ivan! I'll let him tell the story in the video below.

As we made our way up some very steep hills, in dresses might I add (we rock!) we were blessed with more beautiful views and I found myself constantly being thankful for my eyesight. Have you had those moments? They make your heart smile so big.

When we reached the top we were rewarded with the breathtaking Basilica di Santa Margherita.

Santa Margherita was an unwed mother who was abandoned by her family and lived in poverty, having to beg for bread and sustenance. She in turn served the poor and established a hospital for the sick and poverty-stricken. She was canonized in 1728 and her body is preserved in a silver casket in the basilica. Read more about Santa Margherita's story here.

We could not leave Cortona without the customary sharing of a meal and were treated to a most delicious pranzo with some great vino at one of Lisa's favorite, the Trattoria La Grotta on Piazza Baldelli, 3. Deliziosa!

In revisiting this day I realize that life is much bigger than what is going on in the moment. Italy reminds us that centuries upon centuries go by, and the world keeps turning. In this moment I see that our current situation is only a tiny blip in the scheme of life and in human history. And somewhere in here I find comfort and a little peace.

If you would like to find out more about Lisa's Signature Tours go to Find Yourself in Tuscany.

And now for that video I promised. Big Love & Buon Weekend, PatriciaG

The dining room walls adorned with frescoes. So beautiful that it will most likely be my Christmas card this year.

My Friend's Villa

October 20, 2016

Buon Giorno a Tutti!

Some of you may remember my blog about healing in Chianti after the passing of my Mom. I was invited by a friend to stay at the villa she was renting while she renovated her recently purchased villa. That was 2 years ago.

This week I was blessed and fortunate enough to visit Laurence and to see her new villa. It is a place of sheer beauty. Everywhere I looked my eyes danced with delight and I smiled from deep within. My friend is a brilliant decorator with a keen eye of creating something without having to see it first. I mean, she bought a huge block of marble in Carraia and designed a tub and sink from it. She is unlike me, who will move a vase 10 different times before agreeing on the right spot. But, as she so lovingly put it, I take great photos, so we all have our own gifts of creativity and beauty to share. Grazie cara!

Our visit was very last minute & unplanned since we have both been busy. But as the Universe & Italy will always have it, spending the day turned out to be an effortless one. Sharing time with Laurence always turns out to be easy and I marvel at the genius of life that allows us to cross paths with people who remain close to our hearts. She and I met as roommates here in Firenze back in the 90's. We've only seen each other a handfull of times since then, but each time we meet up it's as if we see each other every day, and we pick up where we left off. There is no awkwardness or a need to explain. It is life, and she reminds me to accept and enjoy life and the time shared. I always feel healed and centered after a visit with her. It reminds me of my relationship with Firenze...always welcoming me back as if I've never left, with the reminder that life is meant to be enjoyed and shared, in ease and with beauty and grace. Pause for reflection......

With Laurence's ok, I'd like to share just a few photos with you of her lovely villa. I hope they make you go ahhhhh as they do for me. I have many as there are over 30 rooms - I think. I tried to count them but I kept getting lost. It is that grand and I have deemed it to be paradise here on earth, feel extremely blessed to have spent some time, and have vowed a return visit as quickly as I can.

Thank you for a beautiful couple of days dear friend. A presto! Speriamo.

Big Love & Buon Weekend, PatriciaG

I know it's a bathroom, but by far the best toilet flush and tank I have ever seen!

Grazie cara! Ci vediamo presto. Speriamo!

If you're interested in reading my post "The Healing Touch of Chianti" focusing on my stay referenced above, you can do so here.

Napoli

October 14, 2016

Ciao a Tutti,

My trip to Napoli was an interesting one. Any thoughts or plans that I had about exploring this city and its environs quickly went awry when I had emergency dental surgery two straight days prior to my departure. I won't share the details on this, but suffice it to say that it was painful, bloody, and for this tough New York broad, admittedly a bit traumatic.

Despite thoughts of canceling, I packed up my shit, got on the train and found myself in Napoli. It is an amazing city, rich in culture, diversity, beauty, great food, grit, and absolute chaos. Anyone whose ever tried to cross the street in Napoli understands the chaos! I mean, this place has got NYC beat times 100. In fact, if I had to compare, I'd say NYC is more like Naples, Florida when compared to Napoli. The people remind me of New York City...tough on the outside and a bit suspicious of you at first, but once you spend a little time letting them know who you are, they are the warmest and most generous people, and they open their city to you.

I had to do some soul searching here. Part of me wanted to hit the ground running and eat up this city. However, I was in a considerable amount of pain and still reeling from the surgery. I had to become comfortable with the idea that maybe I needed to take it slow and easy. This left me feeling disappointed in myself, a bit intimidated (senza bitchy Patricia) and less than adventurous. Inspite of this, I spent some wonderful, delicious and inspiring moments here in Napoli. It was an interesting experience for me; one which I am, quite honestly, still processing. Therefore, I'm going to stop 'talking' and just share the images from my stay with you. I hope you like. Buon Weekend & Big Love, PatriciaG (one more thing...Napoli I will be back!)

There are so many of these staircases and alleyways. Love them.

Casa Tolentino, my bed & breakfast. A 17th-century restored monastery. More info on CT here.

View from my window. Vesuvio in the distance.

Hanging laundry is an art in Napoli. It reminded me of my Mom hanging laundry out my bedroom window in Ozone Park, Queens.

An empty piazza with a closed church and seating for one.

A break in the clouds and I do believe I heard angels sing.

Pasta fagioli. When I went to Caffe Eccletico to say Arrivederci to new friends Orazio & Salvatore they insisted I eat something before the trip & cooked up this typical Napolitana dish for me. I want some more now!

Orazio e Salvatore at Caffe Eccletico. If you go to Napoli, go see these guys. They are amazing! Located on Corso Vittorio Emanuele.

No surgery was keeping me away from this. It took a while to eat, but I managed to finish every last bite.

The people who made my visit special:

Francesco & Antonella...We met in New York City 2 years ago. Then we celebrated New Year's Day together in Firenze last year. And now I kept my promise to visit them in their hometown. They shared their city with such love and generosity. Grazie… — Francesco & Antonella...We met in New York City 2 years ago. Then we celebrated New Year's Day together in Firenze last year. And now I kept my promise to visit them in their hometown. They shared their city with such love and generosity. Grazie cari amici! A presto!

Totally unplanned. My friend Nico from New York City wound up being in Napoli the same time as me. He brought me on a tour of the city. I will forever remember the visit to Quartiere Spagnoli. Era fantastico! Grazie caro! A presto!

San Gregorio Armeno is a Christmas paradise. I thought of my Dad while visiting here. He loved decorating for Christmas & made it so special for us and he would've loved this place. I did a short video of what I am sure Dad would've purchashed to add to his Christmas collection. I'd like to share with you.

Forever: A Dedication to My Mother

September 30, 2016

Forever...that is how long the above dedication to my Mother will remain. It is written in a beautiful, handbound leather book, made at the Scuola del Cuoio (Leather School) on Santa Croce’s premises, preserved in the historical archives of the Basilica di Santa Croce. These archives have been kept since the early 16th century.

Two years ago while visiting Santa Croce, I was drawn to Brunelleschi's Cappella Pazzi (Pazzi Chapel). It's a small chapel tucked away outside the main Basilica. It was quite stunning inside, however it was severely deteriorated. The beauty and sadness stirred up a range of emotions in me that I couldn't quite pinpoint. I took a seat on one of the stone benches and sat there for close to an hour. A few months after I returned to New York, I saw a post on social media about a Kickstarter campaign to restore the Pazzi Chapel. Santa Croce has always been my favorite in all of Firenze and I immediately knew that I wanted to be a part of this. I also knew that I'd do so in my Mother's honor. Her memory lives on in those who loved her in New York. I wanted to commemorate her in Firenze, a place that I also love so much, and a place where she had always encouraged me to go and spread my wings. I wrote a more detailed blog about this on May 6, 2016 (excerpts above). If you'd like to read the full blog click here: "A Gift to my Mother for Mother's Day"

This past Wednesday, my friend Claudio and I went to see the restored Pazzi Chapel, and it is absolutely breathtaking!

When we entered I asked if it was possible to see the Book of Backers. The woman at the desk said she wasn't sure and at that point I thought I might have to let this idea go. However, after 15 minutes she came to find us in the Basilica and gave us the address of where the book is currently being held. She said she called ahead to let them know we were coming. I will forever bless her for this kind gesture because what ensued was one of the most touching and emotional moments of my life. Davvero!

We were greeted with much warmth and gratitude for my donation. Siliva Peruzzi carefully handed the book over to me. I can't explain what it felt like to lay my hands on this book. I had received a digital version of the pages, but holding the actual book in my hands...well, I'm actually at a loss for words here.

There was great emotion in the room as the three of us understood the impact of the moment, and I know there was no mistake that we three were meant to share it. A decision two years ago to turn left and enter a chapel, on what seemed to be an ordinary day, comes full circle to create one of the most impactful days of my life. In this I remind myself that baby steps are equally important, to always pay attention to them, and endeavor to summon up the courage to follow through on them.

I bless everyone who had a role in making this happen. And I add a special Grazie Mille to Claudio for accompanying me, not only for helping to translate and find the office, for taking these photos for me to cherish and share, but more importantly for experiencing these emotions along with me. Era un grande regalo caro amico. Grazie mille.

Buon Weekend & Big Love, PatriciaG

I put together a short (34 seconds) video of the chapel to share the experience with you.

A Rainy Day in Firenze

September 23, 2016

On a recent rainy day in Firenze I decided to stay in and take it slow. I arrived here with a pretty bad cough and had been pushing myself, but the heavy rain gave me permission to hang inside and be ok with it. I love me some guilt-free vegging, especially when accompanied by a room with an interesting view.

As I watched the raindrops dance off of the classic Florentine terracotta rooftops, I started to take stock of some of the little things I forget that tend to surprise and delight me when I first arrive. For instance, how the hot water is always turned to the right instead of the left. (This is best learned pretty much right away.) How light switches flip down (to turn on) instead of up. How the house keys look like something that will gain you entry into a mysterious old castle.

How in order to conserve electric, and save money, you must hit the light switch in the stairwell, otherwise you descend in darkness. The savvy apartment dweller gauges how long it will take to get to the next landing before the light goes out. How my shoes and jewelry get a little loose as my body loses the inflammation from eating healthier foods, senza GMO's and all that other crap that's in our food. Sorry USA - it's true. I know...ouch. And lastly, how personal space is not as much of an issue, even with cars & motorinos. They will almost brush your elbow as they go by if you don’t get out of their way. And to avoid all of this, you are constantly walking up onto the sidewalk, then back into the street...up and down..up and down... Being annoyed doesn’t accompany this. It’s just the flow and way of life. Il ritmo. (the rhythm). And you accept it without pause.

As the rain moved on, I contemplated how I love the first sitings of these little things that throw me off. They are a sign of the excavation to come; the real digging down that accompanies traveling, especially for me here in Firenze. When I remain in the familiar layers of my life I don’t give myself the opportunity to explore deeply within. It can be a tricky process this excavation. It brings with it a myriad of emotions and sensations, most of which are blissful. However, it also requires enormous amounts of patience (especially when it comes to wifi) and courage. I'm just at the beginning of this excavation and extremely excited at what I will uncover this time around.

Buon Weekend & Big Love, PatriciaG aka Patrizia Fiorentina

Sono Ritornata - I have returned

September 15, 2016

Ciao a tutti,

I have to pinch myself because I can't believe I am back in Firenze. Non ci credo!!

I can't stop smiling. I think people may think I'm crazy. La pazza Newyorkese e arrivata. (the crazy New Yorker has arrived). I am feeling so blessed and so happy to walk along the Arno, breathing in my beautiful Firenze, reuniting with dear friends, and looking forward to meeting new ones.

I'm keeping it simple this week and sharing some of the images that I've set my eyes upon in the few hours that I've been here, including a short video of my first view of the Arno this time around. I hope you enjoy them as much as I enjoy sharing them with you. Thanks for all the love people.

Buon Weekend e Big Love, PatriciaG

My apartment is behind la Chiesa di San Frediano in Cestello. A new neighborhood for me to explore.

Love a good store window & Firenze is chock full of them

Here's that video that I told you about. Sono ritornata - Grazie Dio!

Italy Here I Come

September 9, 2016

Well it's almost here. After all the phases of planning and daydreaming, I leave for Italy on Tuesday. It always amazes me how my daydream of returning to Italy starts with my walking up to the calendar and choosing a departure date. There have been many times I've wished to go, but my gut tells me the timing isn't right. Then there are times like this one, when I don't know exactly why, but I know that I must go. So I put one foot in front of the other, make the plans, book the flight, rent the apartment and the rest....well I leave it open to guidance, instinct and trust.

I love the empty journal that I bring with me. The pre-departure makes me wonder what words will fill the pages of my journal. Who will I meet? What will I experience? How will I grow? There will be both moments of elation and moments filled with challenges. The prospect of these 'yet to be written moments' simultaneously excite & inspire me. They make me giggle, as well as scare the shit out of me to be quite honest. It's the unknown of stepping out of one's comfort zone and following an unfamiliar path that is the beauty of travel.

I thank all of you who have expressed your beautiful words of encouragement to me. I pack them along with my other essentials. I look forward to sharing my journey and am excited at the prospect of taking you along for the ride. Italy here we come!

Big Love, PatriciaG

Please note, PatriciaG's Shop is currently closed. I'll be heading back to Italy soon to capture more special moments via photos, videos and life adventures to share with you. I invite you to follow me on Instagram and Facebook for daily pics & tidbits. Grazie!

As always, I'd love to hear from you on this or any of my previous blogs. If you feel inspired, please write me in the Comments section, and I'd really love it if you'd share the blog with friends & family. Grazie!

Pizza Party

September 2, 2016

Ciao a Tutti,

Soon the temps will be cooling down and we'll be able to start turning those ovens back on. Perfect timing to have your very own Pizza Party! Recently Eataly started promoting "Make Your Own Pizza" and it's been such a huge hit that I figured I'd share it with my peeps.

Here's the secret recipe. If you're able to come to Eataly to buy our ingredients, that's great! Come visit me while you're there. If you don't have an Eataly nearby (sorry) you can substitute with your local ingredients. Ok here goes:

There you have it. Happy Pizza Making. Buon Weekend & Big Love, PatriciaG

PS: want to see some of the toppings we suggest at Eataly, check out the video.

Love for Italy

August 26, 2016

I had something else planned for the blog this week, but my thoughts and sentiments are dominated by the images coming from Italy. As you've probably seen, a 6.2 earthquake (terremoto) hit central Italy early Wednesday morning, creating massive destruction and terrible loss of life. As I type this, rescuers are still frantically searching for survivors, both with machinery and by hand.

My initial reaction in seeing the news was extreme worry for my friends in Italy. Early reports were a little sketchy as to where the earthquake hit. Thankfully, my friends were not affected. Grazie Dio! Sadly, that cannot be said for many others. Although we may not know their names, or be related to them in any way, we are all connected through our human family, and it is heartbreaking to witness their suffering.

A way for me to work through my sadness, is to try and help in some way. Of course prayers, light and love are being sent in huge waves to our Italian family. However, we can also help monetarily with rescue, recovery and relief efforts. I'm very proud to say that we Americans are amazing at this! We freakin rock! Therefore, I thought I'd use the blog to share some options in case you are able and would like to help:

Global Giving: All donations to this fund will support recovery and relief efforts in the region. Initially, the fund will help first responders meet survivors' immediate needs. Then this fund will transition to support longer-term recovery efforts run by vetted local organizations. By funding relief efforts through local organizations it helps better equip the people on the ground in the affected areas. GlobalGiving also posts reports about how their funds have been used.

Save the Children: in coordination with the Italian Civil Protection from Lazio Region has launched a response in Amatrice, setting up a child-friendly space, a safe and protected environment where children can receive support from trained staff and participate in various activities. They will be able to play, socialize, learn and express themselves as they recover from trauma.

The Italian Red Cross/Rossa Crocia Italiana is also taking donations. More than 420 of the Italian Red Cross aid workers have reached the towns most affected. In addition to the preparation of 2 field kitchens to Amatrice and Accumoli, more than 100 vehicles are currently employed: ambulances, vans, SUVs, truckloads of materials and equipment responding to the first emergency phase. Among the staff employed: psychological support teams and special rescue, dog units, doctors, nurses and logistics personnel.

The National Italian American Foundation: is providing relief for the victims of the earthquake. Italian American Relief is working to identify a specific project or projects for funding in the coming weeks. All proceeds will go to the rebuilding efforts of a community badly damaged.

For my local Italy peeps: EMERGENZA TERREMOTO: DONARE 2 EURO/DONATE 2 EURO by Texting 45500.

And for my local NYC Peeps: Did you know that Pasta all'amatriciana comes from Amatrice? Restaurants in New York City are supporting earthquake relief through sales of Pasta all'Amatriciana. So far Ribalta, Maialino and Marta are on board. More restaurants are signing up by the minute. I can't keep up. So go have a great meal while providing support that is greatly needed. There's an Amo Amatriciana page on Facebook that is constantly updating the list, so check them out. See I told you we rock at this!! So proud.

A Video from Repubblica Italy shares some of the haunting images with us. "The clock stopped at 3:36 of the tower, the tears of those who lost everything, the courage of the rescuers, the gutted houses that show the broken everyday." Fifty iconic images of the tragedy experienced by the earthquake-affected communities. by Valeria D'Angelo.

Wishing everyone a safe and beautiful weekend. Extra hugs & Big Love to you all, PatriciaG

Love from the streets of New York City to Italy.

Photo credit: Michele Falzone via Getty Images

Huffington Post Picks Up PatriciaG's Guest Blog

August 19, 2016

It’s been an exciting week here at PatriciaG Loves Italy! I’m delighted to share that a guest blog, originally featured here on my blog on May 27, 2016, was featured in The Huffington Post!

A big thanks and a grazie mille, to travel planner and fellow blogger, Cassandra Santoro from Travel Italian Style! It was through her efforts that "5 Tips to Begin Again in Italy" was picked up by Huff Post!

"I believe it's the idea of the simplicity of life, the escape from our familiar surroundings, the ability to renew again. Every time I'm getting a second chance at life." Cassandra Santoro

To read more of what Cassandra had to say, and get your hands on her amazing "5 Tips to Begin Again in Italy" head on over to The Huffington Post! And if you want to read the original blog post featured here on PatriciaG Loves Italy, which includes additional photos, just click here.

Buon Weekend & Big Love, PatriciaG

Please note, PatriciaG's Shop is closing at midnight tonight. I'll be heading back to Italy in a few weeks to capture more special moments via photos, videos and life adventures to share with you. I invite you to follow me on Instagram and Facebook for daily pics & tidbits. Grazie!

PatriciaG Loves NYC too!

August 12, 2016

Hi All/Ciao a Tutti!

Yes, PatriciaG does love Italy. But I also love my hometown of New York City. I love the convenience of my life here and all the opportunities that are pretty much at my fingertips.

In the hot summer I especially love the fact that I can hop on the subway and head out to the beach to take a break from the city heat. My favorite destination for this is always Rockaway Beach, Queens. I grew up going to this beach. Four generations of my family have swam in these waves. My grandfather taught me how to ride, dive under, and respect the waves here at Rockaway. Since then I've added my very own mermaid twirls, by spinning up into the crest of the wave, turning and letting the wave carry me wherever it wants to. Pure bliss! And yes, my secret's out...I am a mermaid.

Being at the beach is cleansing, relaxing, invigorating and inspiring, all rolled into one. I freakin love it!

A couple of weeks ago I was taking a video of the waves. To my surprise, and everyone else's on the beach that day, a pair of dolphins quickly popped up out of the water. You can check them out in the video. Before I let you go though, I'd like to encourage you to visit the beach: take a swim, ride a wave, walk along the water's edge, build a sand castle, whatever feels good to you. In life, we sometimes have a tendency to stay stuck in serious mode. The beach has a way of getting you unstuck and lightening your heart. And if you want to come do a mermaid twirl with me, hit me up with a private message or in the Comments section! Happy Weekend & Big Love, PatriciaG (ps: I'm offering FREE Shipping on my Rockaway Beach Magnets until August 19th. See info below)

Some sales pitching going on here: As a reminder of the blissful beach, I keep one of my Rockaway Beach Magnets on my fridge. If you'd like one too, they are available in my Shop. FREE SHIPPING from now until August 19th.

Reminder: My Shop will be going on vacation with me in September & October. Please place your orders by August 19th. I'll be heading back to Italy to capture more photos, videos and life adventures to share with you. I invite you to also follow me on Instagram and Facebook for daily pics & tidbits.

PatriciaG's Shop is going on vacation

August 5, 2016

Ciao a Tutti,

As I look to my upcoming trip to Italia in September, I'm prepping things here in New York. PatriciaG's Shop is going on vacation along with me, so if you'd like to purchase any notecards or prints, please do so by Tuesday, August 16th. After that the Shop will be on vacation (vacanza) until November.

I'm sharing some of this summer's most popular items below, but you can see the full collection in my Shop.

I want to thank all of you who have supported me with your purchases. I particularly love your stories of how you'll be using my photos, either to decorate your own personal space, or giving them as gifts to loved ones. It warms my heart! Feel free to tell me more in the Comments section below.

I'll be sharing my Italian journey here on the weekly blog, but for daily pics & tidbits, follow me on Facebook & Instagram. Grazie Mille! Big Love & Buon Weekend, PatriciaG

Sunset, San Frediano, Firenze. (My apartment will be right behind that church in September)

Enjoy this Moment of Tranquility

July 29, 2016

If you're like me, you've been juggling a lot lately. I'm feeling a little burned out, not only from my crazy schedule, but from the major heat wave that we've been experiencing here in New York City! At times it feels like I'm living inside a pizza oven. Stick a fork in me I'm done!

In an effort to alleviate some of this, I decided to virtually beam on over to a place, and a moment, that felt tranquil, cool, and ahhhh all over. I thought you might be needing a moment of tranquility yourself, and so I'm taking you along for the ride. I took this video in Volpaia, Chianti in May 2014. It's short (19 seconds), but it's sweet and you can hit replay if you need. Breathe in, relax and enjoy!

Buon Weekend, Big Love & Stay Cool, PatriciaG

Please note: My Shop will be closed September & October, as I head back to Italy to share more photos, videos and life adventures. Place your orders by August 19th. I invite you to visit my Shop where you'll find my latest collection of Photo Notecards and Frame-able Prints. As always, I'd love to hear from you on this or any of my previous blogs. If you feel inspired, please write me in the Comments section, and I'd really love it if you'd share the blog & my Shop with friends & family. Grazie!

Birthday Grats

July 22, 2016

Ciao a Tutti!

This week I'll be celebrating my birthday. Yay me! I'm looking forward to spending time with my family, in nature, surrounded by love, great food (bringing to life Mom's & Grandma's bbq recipes) and marathon nights of dominoes & rummy tiles.

I can't wait!! In Italian we say 'non vedo l'ora!'

For me, my birthday (mio compleanno) is a time to take stock of how the year is going. Am I sticking to promises I made to myself at the new year? Has anything new popped up that I need to revamp? What's working? What's not working? Am I attracting what I set out to attract in 2016?

One of my favorite tools to use, in order to attract my dreams, is to keep a daily gratitude (gratitudine) journal. I find that the more grateful I am, the more things show up for me to be grateful for. I normally write a minimum of 10 things.

For my birthday I up the ante and go for 100! It's one of my birthday gifts from me to me. No pressure. No right or wrong. Just what feels good. I'm gonna get personal on you now and give you a few that may find their way onto this year's list:

* Mom and Dad - for giving me life

* All of my ancestors - for giving me Mom & Dad

* My breath

* My eyesight

* Family & Friends

* New York City - my home that celebrates diversity

* Firenze - my other home that celebrates La Dolce Vita

* Sun, Rain, Sky, Snow

* Ocean/Swimming

* Creativity

* My camera, iPhone, laptop that give me the opportunity to share my vision

* Laughter & Tears

* Coffee, Water, Prosecco, Vodka - not necessarily in this order

* Kissing

* Money - yes! Contrary to what we are sometimes taught to believe, it's ok to welcome & celebrate money into our lives. We are meant to live abundant lives on every level.

* Lastly, I am truly grateful for all of you who take the time to read my blog. I know there's a lot of stuff out there and I appreciate your visiting with me each week. Grazie Mille!

So there you have it, a little private peak into something that I hold dear.

Whether it's your birthday or not, I invite you to give this a try. I can honestly say that this practice has created shifts in me that have brought me courage, clarity, insight and adventure. I hope it does the same for you.

Big Love & Buon Weekend, PatriciaG

I invite you to visit my Shop where you'll find my latest collection of Photo Notecards and Frame-able Prints. Please note: the Shop will be closed September & October, so place your orders by mid-August. As always, I'd love to hear from you on this or any of my previous blogs. If you feel inspired, please write me in the Comments section, and I'd really love it if you'd share the blog & my Shop with friends & family. Grazie!

Stock photo of apartment. Will have to wait til I get there for my own pics.

Phase 3 of PatriciaG Goes to Italy: Where to Stay

July 15, 2016

Ciao a Tutti,

Some of you have asked how I choose a place to stay when I travel to Italy. Hotel? Airbnb? Bed & Breakfast? With friends?

Generally, in comparing long stays in hotels, bed & breakfast spots and Airbnb, there is no contest pricewise. A fairly decent hotel can cost somewhere in the area of $150 a night. That in itself can add up pretty quickly, but you're also eating all of your meals out. Bed & Breakfasts are often a little cheaper and include breakfast, but are still up there in price. Staying with friends - I say if it works for you, go for it. For me, it's just not my jam. I enjoy being free to do my own thing and not have to check in with anyone. Conversely, I also don't like people staying with me, for much of the same reason. Plus, I have a thing about sacred space and I just like having it all to myself....unless of course my guest is tall, dark and handsome....then the 'subject to change' option kicks in. LOL.

My stays in Italy generally average a few weeks. Therefore the winner for me is....Airbnb. Pricewise it is the best. You can negotiate the price depending on length of stay & time of year, sometimes down to $55/$60 a night! For me, it also provides a home base where I can leave the bulk of my stuff and travel to other cities with a small bag. More importantly though, it allows me to LIVE in Firenze instead of just visit. I can cook, have dinner parties & friends over, make my espresso in the morning, and do all of the daily things that make me a part of the community. Patrizia Fiorentina!

A few helpful hints when looking at apartments in Italy:

Look at a map of the city to see where you'd like to stay. Do some google searches on the neighborhoods that catch your eye. For me, I love the Oltrarno in Firenze. It is away from the craziness of the city center, but close enough to get to when I crave the cray cray. Plus it's where many locals & artisans live, and that enchances my experience.
Always add a floor to what's listed. So if it says you're on the 2nd floor, it's actually the 3rd floor. Remember most of the time these are very old palazzos and they do not have elevators, and the stairs are deep stone steps. I have 28 of them in this next trip. The way I see it, more P's & G's for me: Pizza, Pasta, Prosciutto, Prosecco, Gorgonzola, Gelato - you see where I'm going with this right!
Wifi for me is key as I blog each week and I have a heavy presence on social media with my photographs. So be sure to ask how the wifi is because it can get very tricky.
Always look at the photos of the bathrooms! I can't stress this enough. I'm always suspicious when they don't show a photo. Years ago I had an apartment that had a dedicated broom with a rag tied to it in order to push the water out of the hallway, back into the bathroom, and into a tiny hole in the floor. Not kidding.
You may get offers to do the deal outside of Airbnb for a larger discount. I would not recommend it.
Also look at the map to see where your apartment is. I see listings sometimes saying "steps away from Ponte Vecchio" when I know it's not near the old bridge at all. And maybe you don't want to stay steps away as it can be very noisy at night.
Which brings me to - download a sound machine app onto your phone, just in case. It can be a little noisy regardless of where you're staying. To help me sleep I use the (free) app White Noise Ambience Lite.
Last one: it never hurts to ask for a discount. In all of my apartments that I've rented, I've always gotten a reduced price.

Ok peeps, I hope this helps. Click here if you're interested in checking out Airbnb. And if you have any questions, feel free to write me. Also, I invite you to take the journey with me by following me on Instagram, Facebook & Twitter - links above. The journey begins in September! Buon Weekend & Big Love, PatriciaG

Morning coffee & girasoli.....Via San Niccolo, Firenze, May 2014

A Mini Visit to Italy: Panorama in Grand Central

July 8, 2016

Ciao a Tutti,

I always marvel at the fact of how closely knit Italy and New York City are. So it especially delights me when representations of this fall easily at my feet, which is what happend this week when I met my friend & fellow Italophile, Allison, to check out something special going on at Grand Central.

PANORAMA: An Immersion into Italian Beauty is a breathtaking 360° panoramic video that takes you on an amazing journey through Italy’s culture, landscapes, and craftsmanship. The 'Panorama' team travelled across Italy to shoot images in more than 200 locations and 100 companies, creating an extraordinary 15-minute movie on Italian beauty. It is an immersion into over 3000 years of Italian heritage showcasing the richness of Italy's culture, nature, food, fashion and craftsmanship. I must admit, it evoked some serious emotion in me people.

The installation will be open to the public every day from 9 a.m. to 6 p.m. from now until Wednesday, July 20th. It's in Vanderbilt Hall East. If you're in the hood I highly suggest popping in and having a mini visit to Italy.

For a sneak peak check out the trailer so graciously provided by Panorama Italy. Buon viaggio!

Buon Weekend & Big Love, PatriciaG

Flying the Skies to Italy: Some personal tips and anecdotes

July 1, 2016

Ciao a Tutti,

As has happened in the past, the thoughts start swirling in my head about returning to Italy. My process begins with thinking when I'd like to go. This time it's September. Then I start flirting with the research of checking out flight costs and apartments. Before I know it, everything is booked and I'm like 'holy shit I'm going to Italy!'

Phase 1 of my process started a couple of weeks ago when I took myself to dinner with laptop in tow. I started perusing the sites and created an excel document with details, ideas, possibilities and daydreams.

Phase 2 started shortly after. I had to decide where I'd start in Italy, but who am I kidding..it will always be Firenze. Hello, have I met me??? Once that decision was made my next step was to check airlines and AirBnb's to see if I could coordinate. This is always a tricky part as some compromising is necessary. For instance, the apartment that I wanted was not available for the dates that I'm traveling. But that's for another blog.

So flights....first, let me preface this by saying that I am not an expert on this at all. I'm just sharing my process in case you are a solo traveler like me who is a bit of a control freak, and may find some of this information useful. And my experience is only with Italy, so things may be different with other destinations.

My main go to for flights is Momondo.com. A friend who travels extensively turned me onto this site a couple of years ago. I find them to be the best both in price and variety of flights. A few things that I keep an eye on when booking are:

Watch the flight times. Sometimes the price is great but you're traveling for 22 hours to Italy! Not worth it as far as I'm concerned.
If you have a connecting flight, as I always do since I go straight to Firenze (please expand the airport Firenze!!), give yourself at least 1.5 hours for changing planes. Otherwise you'll find yourself running through the Zurich airport, pushing old ladies out of the way, and then find yourself sitting next to said old lady on the plane all the way back to New York. Almost true story. I didn't actually push her down. A quick aside as to why we were delayed leaving Firenze. We were waiting for the man whose job it is to escort a wheelchair-bound person to the plane. When he finally showed up, rumor had it that he was out having a coffee and a cigarette. If you've been to Italy, you know that this is a very likely possibility. Ahhh gotta love Italia!

Sitting on the bus, so close, but waiting....waiting....

I'm always torn between a window or an aisle seat. With the window you get to lean while trying to sleep, and this may afford you some additional comfort. But as someone who can't sleep on the plane, it's handy for me to have an aisle seat for those frequent visits to the toilet without disturbing my sleeping companion. Whichever you choose, be sure to book your seat in advance so that you don't wind up in that dreaded middle seat! oh the horror!!
As much as it seems like fun to have cocktails on the plane, it's really a big no-no. Save the imbibing for when you reach your destination. Alcohol dehydrates you something awful. Stick with water...lots of it....choose the aisle seat. (wink)
Be sure to do little arm and leg stretches throughout the flight and get up and walk around once in a while.
And lastly, pray that you don't get one of those inconsiderate a*holes in front of you who reclines his/her seat as soon as the seatbelt sign goes off and keeps it there for the entire flight. And if you do, well I tend to kick their seat and pull on it strongly and annoyingly each and every time I get in and out of my own seat. Very passive aggressive I know, but it's the little cheap thrills that get you through.
There used to be some clear cut rules for booking less expensive flights, such as a Saturday night stay over, Tuesday's are the cheapest, etc... I tried every combination and the price was the same, $740 roundtrip. Pretty good! I think the key is, if you see a good price, don't hold out hope it will be reduced even further. It's generally not more than $50 less, but can jump two or three times in price. So grab it while you can.

In closing I'd like to say, when flying, just kick back, relax and enjoy. Daydream/journal about all the adventure that's about to happen. You're writing a new chapter in your life and that is freakin amazing!! Buon Weekend & Big Love, PatriciaG

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Love for Carmela

June 24, 2016

Ciao Cari Amici,

My heart is so incredibly sad today, as I find myself having to say goodbye to a very dear, dear friend. I cannot wrap my mind around the fact that Carmela will no longer be here. I have nothing else, but to attempt to find some solace in sharing a few images that she liked, and a few photos that remind me of her in one way or another.

I will forever hold Carmela's laugh in my heart, as it was a special one that will remain unmatched. And, I shall forever be thankful to her for picking up the baton after my Mother died, and celebrating my courage to take chances. She inspired me, although she thought it was the other way around.

Carmela was one of the bravest and most genuinely loving person I've ever known. I will miss her terribly, as will all of those who love her. Please keep Carmela, her husband Ray, and her two beautiful kids Bianca and Ray Jr. in your hearts and your prayers.

Cherish your loved ones and always strive to live your dreams. In the end, it's really all we have and it's all we really need. Love you Carmela.

Carmela & Ray (on the right) celebrating my birthday July 2014.

Revisiting Say Yes! to Speaking Italian

June 17, 2016

Hi All/Ciao a Tutti,

As I go back to Italian lessons next week (aiuto!) I thought I'd revisit a previous blog post as a reminder that there are rewards in challenging ourselves, and it's ok to be vulnerable. So I share with you my interview with Laura Yamin of Say Yes! Podcast:

February 5, 2016: I recently had the honor, and absolute pleasure, of being interviewed by Laura Yamin of Say Yes! Podcast. “The Say Yes! Podcast is a lifestyle bite-size (15 minutes) podcast where we dive deep in one area that you said yes to. The goal is to inspire women to start saying yes to their desires.”

Laura wanted to learn more about what I SAY YES to, and that is studying the Italian language. “If I want to continue to immerse myself and live my dream of living part-time in Italy and part-time in NY, one of the key ways to getting there is mastering the language. It is my journey. And speaking the language is music to me."

I talk about this and more in our fun and engaging interview and I invite you to listen in here: Laura Yamin Say Yes! And while there, be sure to sign up for Laura's Say Yes! Podcast to be inspired by stories from other women who are following their desires and saying yes to their dreams.

Buon Weekend and Big Love, PatriciaG

For more information about the people & groups I spoke of in my interview, please visit their websites:

Say Yes! Podcast
Roberta, private tutor
Casa Italiana
Italian Cultural Institute in New York
New York Italians
One World Italiano

I invite you to visit my Shop where you'll find my latest collection of Photo Notecards and Frame-able Prints. And as always, I'd love to hear from you on this or any of my previous blogs. If you feel inspired, please write me in the Comments section, and I'd really love it if you'd share the blog & my Shop with friends & family. Grazie!

I Could Sit Here For The Rest Of My Life

June 10, 2016

Hi All/Ciao a Tutti,

I went in search of this photo today. It was buried with old Italy photos from a solo trip I took throughout the country back in the 90's.

After an hour or so of going through all the places I store my photos: boxes, albums, envelopes, folders, etc...pre-digital error obviously, I was delighted to find it. However, after the initial celebration, I found myself hesitate for a second. At face value, this is a small photo, only 3” x 5” in size. It’s not the most overwhelmingly beautiful photo I’ve ever taken, yet it sent me on a mission, with strong intention, to view it again...to have it handy...to share it with you.

As I continued to look at it, I remembered. I had made a last minute decision to stop in Ischia. It wasn’t in my original plan as I headed south to Calabria. I had been sitting in Piazza Navona in Rome, pulled out my trusty guide book (senza internet in those days) and chose to make a pit stop on this beautiful island and spend a few days.

The morning was so beautiful and crisp, and I felt as if I had all the time in the world, and would spend that time just sitting here on my balcony, drinking my cappuccino, sipping my acqua minerale, listening to the sounds of nature, as I stared out at the beauty surrounding me. I felt as if I could sit here for the rest of my life.

This is what sent me in search of this photo. I wanted to feel that feeling again. I needed to be reminded that travel; that life, is most precious in the small moments that make our hearts smile.

Buon Weekend & Big Love, PatriciaG